Best questions for couples to ask so they can grow closer
- What are your best qualities?
- Which are your worst qualities?
- When did you first have your heart broken?
- Are you still friends with any of your ex-boyfriends or ex-girlfriends?
- Are platonic friendships possible with members of the opposite sex?
- How read to be monogamous? And if so why?
- Can you define cheating?
- What are your unfulfilled sexual desires or fantasies?
- If you won the national lottery, how would your life change?
- What’s your fondest memory ever memory?
- Describe the scariest moment of your life.
- What is your biggest fear?
- Do you have any phobias?
- What can instantly make you feel better if you get bad news?
- Which tricks do you use to fix a bad day?
- What is the most amazing advice you have ever received?
- Besides or parents, who do you respect most in your life? Why?
- Are you a cat person or dog person?
- Are good or bad at keeping secrets? Give me an example.
- When is it ok to tell a lie or fib?
- Do you bottle things up or do you ever over share?
- What do you wish you knew more about?
- If you went back to school or could study anything what would you study?
- Which of your body parts do you like the least?
- Which of your body parts do you like the most?
- Would you ever have cosmetic surgery?
- What are you most passionate about in life?
- Would you say you live to work, work to live, or neither?
- How would you respond if one of us got a job that required a lot of travel?
- Would you be willing to relocate for a job? For your partner’s?
- Would you prefer to run your own business or to work for someone else?
- What is the best customer service experience you ever had?
- What was the worst flight you ever took?
- Do you like to work more during the morning or in the evening?
- How many hours of sleep do you need to fully function at your best?
- What was your first pet’s name?
- From this list of best questions for couples, what has been your favorite so far?
- How often do you like to see or speak to your parents or siblings?
- Have you ever lost someone or something you truly loved?
- What’s your ideal weather or climate?
- Describe your ideal holiday: Sun, snow, city or beach…or other.
- What would or best day ever be like? Start from when I opened my eyes
- How do you feel about travelling with other couples?
- Condo or house?
- What drives you every day?
- Do you know purpose in life?
- What do you value more: planning or being spontaneous?
- Do you prefer certainty or uncertainty?
- Do you believe in life after death? Or reincarnation?
- Do you believe in a god or a higher power?
- Do you believe in ghosts?
- What religion were / are your parents? How devout were / are they?
- How would you react if we had a problem getting pregnant (or getting pregnant again)?
- Would you consider adopting children?
- How many children do you want, or how many more do you want?
- Do you want to raise your children in a particular religion or form of spirituality?
- Would you ever be a stay at home parent?
- Do you expect a partner to be a full time parent?
- How do you feel about hiring someone to help with childcare, cooking or housecleaning?
- Are birthdays, anniversaries, and holidays important to you?
- How do you expect to split holidays between your family and your partners?
- Which chores do you most like to do the most? The least?
- Are you a saver or a spender?
- How much debt do you have? Or would you like to have in a year?
- What was your first job?
- What was your worst job?
- Were you ever fired from a job as a kid?
- Who was or favorite teacher or professor?
- What age do you want to retire?
- Where do you want to be and what do you want to do when you retire?
- When you die: Cremation or burial?
- Favorite boy’s name?
- Favorite girl’s name?
- Are there any twins in your family?
- What names would you give twins?
- Are you scared of pregnancy or giving birth?
- What was your worst date?
- Have you ever been interviewed in TV or radio or for a newspaper?
- Who was or best boss ever?
- What group of kids did you hang out with in high school?
- What dish would you like to learn to make?
- Who was your first kiss?
- Guns keep you safe? Gun control keeps you safe?
- What was the most zen moment of your life?
- Which behavior from others makes you angriest?
- What question from this best questions for couples list would to like to be asked that I haven’t asked you yet?
- If you wrote this list of best questions for couples, what questions would you add that is missing?
- What makes you most happy?
- What books were you into when you were a kid?
- Tell me about the most profound book you ever read?
- What is the one memory that makes you cry?
- What kind of parent or grandparent do you think you will be?
- If I died, would you remarry?
- What is the hardest thing you have ever done?
- What would be the title of your autobiography if you ever wrote one?
- If money was no object where would you live?
- What is the one thing on Amazon
that you want right now that you would buy if you had a $500 gift certificate? - Have you ever skydived? Would you?
- Would you ever edit or children’s genes? To change their looks?
- Elvis or the Beatles? Discuss.
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